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It has been said that sharing personal stories is one of the most effective ways to change people’s hearts and minds. This is the story of Shane and Tom and Shane hopes you are inspired to share it with others.

 

Top 100 Marriage Equality Blogs

We received an email from Joseph Atkins, who has compiled a list of 100 Marriage Equality Blogs….

The fight for marriage equality is progressing each day. This week, the Supreme Court is hearing arguments about the constitutionality of two gay marriage laws: the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) and California’s Proposition 8. The hearings have the potential to help shape gay marriage equality laws for a long time to come. Follow all the news and more about marriage equality with this list of what we consider to be the top 100 blogs on the topic. Please note that these are listed in no particular order.

You can check out list by clicking here…..

Britain passes draft gay marriage legislation

British MPs have voted in favour of legislation allowing gay marriage, despite a split in prime minister David Cameron’s Conservative party.

The draft law, which proposes legalising same-sex marriage in England and Wales in 2014, was carried by 400 votes to 175 votes in the House of Commons.

The legislation is several stages away from becoming law, but has already exposed rifts within Mr Cameron’s party at a time when he is facing growing talk of a possible leadership challenge.

But with the majority of Liberal Democrat and Labour MPs supporting the bill, it passed easily.

The new law would also allow civil partners to convert their partnerships into marriages.

In a late intervention just two hours before lawmakers voted, Mr Cameron made a televised statement to say the move was about “making our society stronger”.

“I think it’s right that gay people should be able to get married too,” he said.

“This is yes about equality, but it’s also about making our society stronger.

“I know there are strong views on both sides of the argument. I respect that. But I think this is an important step forward for our country.”

Gay couples in Britain have had the right to enter into civil partnerships and adopt children since 2005.

The new law does not force the Anglican and Catholic churches – who strongly oppose the move – to conduct gay marriages, but critics say gay people may launch legal challenges.

Behind in the polls, analysts believe Mr Cameron is trying to perform a balancing act to reconcile his desire to show his party is progressive with the views of many of those inside it uncomfortable with such reform.

Amid growing talk of a possible leadership challenge against him, many Conservative MPs say they feel Mr Cameron is not a real Conservative and is sacrificing what were once core party values on the altar of populism.

If the legislation’s passage is just as smooth in the House of Lords, Britain will become the 12th country to legalise same-sex marriage.

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A Marriage Equality Vote is Coming, What You Can Do To Help

Australian Marriage Equality are doing a wonderful job with campaigning for marriage equality for the GLBTIQ community.

How you can help marriage equality in Tasmania

Send a message to Premier Lara Giddings thanking her, and Opposition Leader Will Hodgman asking for a Liberal conscience vote

http://www.australianmarriageequality.com/contact-tasmanian-government/

If you live in Tasmania, send a message to your local Upper House member and attend the marriage equality rally on Saturday August 11th at Parliament House

http://tasunited.org/contact-your-mlc/

http://tasunited.org/get-involved/events/

Donate to the special fund that has been established for marriage equality in Tasmania

https://www.gofundraise.com.au/payments/donate/beneficiary/652

Share a new video which explains how and why Tasmania should take the lead on marriage equality

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAvasBFvIvU&feature=youtu.be

Tasmania’s gay marriage plan hits stumbling block

The leader of Tasmania’s Upper House has refused to speculate on whether the chamber would pass newly proposed laws on gay marriage.

On Saturday Premier Lara Giddings told the State Labor Party conference she would move to legislate marriage equality by the end of the year.

Ms Giddings said she had legal advice that Tasmania could go it alone and she was confident she had the support of all state Labor MPs except Speaker Michael Polley.

It is likely the legislation will pass the Lower House with the help of the Greens but its passage through the Upper House is less certain.

Legislative Council president Sue Smith said while she personally opposed the change she could not speak for fellow members.

“I would never presume to understand how my colleagues will vote,” Ms Smith said.

“They certainly will listen to their electorates, they will do their homework and they will formulate an opinion on the wishes of the electorate and the legislation that’s before them.”

There are also concerns the laws could be challenged in the High Court even if they are passed by Tasmania’s Parliament.

Treasurer Wayne Swan told Channel Ten Labor would continue to pursue a conscience vote in the Federal Parliament, but said he could not say what legal status gay marriages in Tasmania might have.

“We’ll go through our process in the National Parliament and I guess they’ll go through theirs in Tasmania,” he said.

“But we haven’t seen the outcome of that as of yet, so it’s far to early too draw a conclusion on that matter.”

Federal conscience vote

Prime Minister Julia Gillard also said it was too early to make any decision about the issue.

“We do have a bill before the Federal Parliament dealing with same sex marriage,” she said.

“I determined that this should be a conscience vote for the Labor party and people will be free to determine how they vote.

“As for any laws that may be the subject of consideration in Tasmania, we don’t have any details at this stage.”

The Australian Greens have called on the Federal Government to rule out taking court action over Tasmania’s plans.

Greens Senator Sarah Hanson-Young said Federal Labor should say what it intends to do.

“I call on Julia Gillard to rule out any legal challenge by the Commonwealth to the passage of legislation being passed in Tasmania,” she said.

Greens leader Christine Milne also pressed the Federal Government for reassurance it would not stand in the way.

“We want to make sure that this goes through, that the enormous benefits that will accrue to the community can come to pass, that we genuinely end discrimination and we want to see the Prime Minister get right behind it,” she said.

“The Greens have been driving this agenda nationally and in Tasmania for a long time. It is so important to get rid of discrimination and it will be great for Tasmania to take a leadership role.”

‘Huge opportunity’

Ms Giddings’ announcement was greeted with thunderous applause by most at the conference and by Rainbow Labor’s Robbie Moore.

“It’s a very proud moment for all of us,” he said.

“It’s been a long time coming and certainly our focus had been on trying to achieve these laws nationally and that’s still the idea but this step of getting rid of this discrimination within Tasmania is a significant step, it’s a huge opportunity for Tasmania.”

Gay rights activist Rodney Croome said he was also proud of the Premier’s decision.

“It will once and for all dispel our lingering reputation for homophobia,” he said.

There are hopes introducing same sex marriage could also bring economic benefits.

The Tasmanian Small Business Council’s Robert Mallet said an influx of same sex couples could be the fillip the Tasmanian tourism industry needs.

“Modelling shows that Tasmania will be in front of the rest of the country by at least $100 million if we are the sole state that recognises same sex marriage,” Mr Mallet said.

‘Out of touch’

The State Opposition’s Peter Gutwein said the prominence of the same-sex issue said a lot about Labor’s priorities.

“What we need to be doing in this state is growing industry not shutting it down as Labor and the Greens are doing at the moment,” he said.

“For this to be the number one issue to come out of the Labor party conference just demonstrates how out of touch they are with ordinary Tasmanians.”

Federal Labor Senator Helen Polley, who is Michael Polley’s sister, said her constituents were opposed to same sex marriage and she was too.

“I know that the groups and the people that email and telephone my office and make contact with me on a regular basis will be mounting a campaigning to stop any such legislation,” she said.

“I don’t think that we need to change the fundamental structure of the Australian community.”

Watch Sparks – A great online mini series

I have been following a great online mini series called “Watch Sparks”. Thanks to Adrian for sharing it!!!!! Have a read below, then watch it!!!!!

About

Sparks is a comedy for marriage equality. It’s a hilarious mockumentary starring Anthony Gooley, Tom Ballard, Briallen Clarke and Brendan Maclean born from the minds of Warren Clarke and Kyran Wheatley during a walk along Coogee Beach.

Brendan said, “There are a lot of independent projects out there but Sparks was the first one that felt like it had a purpose. Sharp script writing, relevant to everything I believe in – but really it was because it made me laugh right from the first script read. It’s powerful but not preachy, hilarious but with heart.”

It’s about an issue that we need to get sorted, the rights of everyone to marry who they love. With two bills before parliament right now, we need to do everything we can to encourage our politicians to see that it is time to end discrimination.

Co-Creator Kyran Wheatley said, “Love is love. That’s all there is to it. Doesn’t matter if you’re gay or straight or whatever, there shouldn’t be two tiers of spending the rest of your life with someone.”

It is time for all Australians to be afforded the same rights.

It is time to end marriage discrimination in Australia.

Love is Love.

Backstory to Sparks

In 2011 a documentary series was commissioned to investigate the people behind Australia’s small businesses.

The series sought to identify what drives small business owners to risk everything and strive for success, when often faced with financial and personal ruin.

While shooting the series the crew discovered Gerald Sparks, the owner and operator of Sparks Wedding Services a struggling wedding planning business. Gerald proved to be a simplistic character who could be defined by one word; love.

Gerald’s love and passion for his business is unparalleled and he has dedicated his life to the institution of marriage.

Unfortunately, Gerald operates a long way from the world of ideal fairytale weddings and his client-base is filled with the desperate and morally questionable couples who use marriage rather than celebrate it.

www.watchsparks.com.au

Welcome to Diverse and Deadly

VACCHO have launched their “Diverse and Deadly” website:

www.diverseanddeadly.com.au

It celebrates the contribution and diversity of Victoria’s GLBTIQ community! Watch the short video on the homepage and you’ll see Aboriginal GLBTIQ culture is very much alive and well! (If anything, just check out Aunty Rieo dancing to “Single Ladies”

The Wedding Dance by Elliot London

I received an email the other to share a short film (THE WEDDING DANCE), here is the story……..

My name is Elliot London…  My passion is making gay cinema…

I have been working on a beautiful short film (THE WEDDING DANCE) about Equality in a different perspective. I would be so ever grateful if you would take a look at this 3 minute film and consider posting it when the time is so right to educate one another.

The objective with this project is to raise money for our feature film FRIEND. A film about coming out in 2012. A time now when things are so different with social networking. A time now that a child might not have the correct tools to coupe with humiliation in an instant world. FRIEND is about giving back. Its a movie about accepting and loving oneself but most of all it is about educating. With the proceeds from this film I am going to be donating the profits to groups that help educate at risk youth… If we can raise $10,000 to make our last film with social networking. Than $250,000 can be done. Please take a look at the campaign we have started. Please share this film…

Thank You

Elliot London

http://www.facebook.com/TheWeddingDance

http://www.facebook.com/theelliotlondon

www.indiegogo.com/myfriend 

Magda thought of suicide, struggled with sexuality

I read Magda’s story below from The Age and watched The Project clip also below. I cannot fault Magda for the courage she shown in the interview and the comments about the struggles of coming out. I myself came out at a later age of 33, whilst struggle with with my own sexuality, like Madga, it is up to us to choose when we “Come Out” as we only have one go at it, and it can only go 2 ways bad or good and you need to set up a support network to help soften the experience if is does turn out badly.

Again, Magda, you are a legend and you have shown true spirit in showing the world who you truly are and to be proud of it.

Here is the article from The Age:

Magda Szubanski has admitted to having suicidal thoughts while struggling with her homosexuality as a teen and has rejected claims by tennis great Margaret Court that sexual preference was a choice for people.

The day after the comic actor announced publicly she was gay, Szubanski called for greater respect to be shown to homosexuals, although she said Australia was overwhelmingly a tolerant society on the issue.

Court, a former world No.1 tennis player and now a pastor with the Perth-based evangelical Victory Life Centre, last month claimed people chose to be gay. She later claimed homosexuality was often the result of sexual abuse.

Magda Szubanski announces that she is gay. 14 February 2012.Magda Szubanski announces that she is gay on national television. Photo: Channel Ten

Szubanski today said while she respected Court’s sporting achievements, she did not hold the same view on Court’s opinions on homosexuality.

“All this notion of choice, the notion you can terrorise or frighten – they used to give people electric shock therapy,” she told radio station 3AW.

“I think all you can do is respect what people are and [show] the most compassion and empathy that you can bring to the situation, trying to foster in people who they really are and help them be their best self.”

Szubanski said she was relieved at coming out publicly, although she had previously done so “thousands of times” to family, friends and colleagues.

She said she had struggled with her feelings when she first realised she was gay, and while she wouldn’t elaborate, admitted she had felt suicidal.

“Oh yes, yeah, absolutely … people will say ‘Why did I take a while to do this [come out]?’ I needed to be as solid as I could be so I could do this in the strongest possible way and be really clear about myself,” she said.

“I didn’t want to come out and botch coming out as it were, I wanted to be effective and useful for other people and to get on really solid ground yourself can really take a while. It can really take a while – it can be a journey – so that’s why I think it’s really important to respect people’s journey, whatever that is.”

Szubanski said gay people often struggled to come to terms with who they were or be accepted by their families, and pointed to high rates of substance abuse, depression and youth suicide as associated factors.

She said she was lucky she had a supportive family, but still endured her emotional struggles as a teen.

“Oh my god. I know how those kids feel. Believe me, I know how those kids feel,” she said.

“I was in my teens when I started to kind of realise and we’re talking the 1970s, and we’re talking living in Croydon in the Sharpie era [of suburban youth gangs].

“I have a Scottish-Irish mother and a Polish father and there is a certain wisdom in keeping your head down sometimes. Those cultural influences also have an impact, no doubt about it.”

Szubanski said she had been “absolutely overwhelmed and so moved by the beautiful response” by the Australian public since she came out publicly and discussed her sexuality on Channel Ten’s The Project last night.

Here is the clip shown on Ten’s The Project